With the
semester coming to and end and finals approaching, stress seems to be weighing
on everyone’s shoulders. We choose to
willingly put ourselves through the classes, the tests, and the papers. Most
will reach a point when they will question their sanity. They will ask, why did
I put myself through this? Inevitably, there comes a point in the middle of a
cram session when hope seems lost. The task seems unbearable, and giving up
becomes appealing. But in the Grey’s Anatomy episode, Desire, I learned to not
give up in times of stress.
Different
people manage and cope in different ways. Some students may plan weeks in
advance, well prepared. But the reality
is most students, especially those who work best with deadlines, find
themselves staying up all night studying the night right before the big test.
They go through the next day exhausted, leaving many to wonder if it’s worth
it; do the benefits of an all-night study session outweigh the sleepiness and
fuzzy thinking that generally characterize the next day? Recent research says
‘no.’ Sleep is vital is maintaining physical, mental, and emotional health
needed to succeed. This Grey’s Anatomy episode showed great examples of the
different ways people handle stress and react under pressure. The day of the
Board Examinations finally came from the interns. For weeks up to this point
all they could think about the was the test. Eventually this kind of stress may
big bring a great deal of damage to the body and mind, as some of the interns
so conveniently displayed. Meredith became physically sick, April had a near
mental breakdown, Karev was a near no-show, and Jackson’s mind was deeply
submerged in his personal life. Like always, the only one who appeared to have
it together was Christina.
Stress can
often make people jumpy, excitable, or even irritable. The effects of stress
may cause some people to drink or smoke heavily, neglect exercise or proper
nutrition, or overuse either the television or the computer. Stress also
realeases hormones that trigger the fight or flight response. These hormones
help you to either fight harder or run faster. Other side effects also include
increase blood pressure, sweating, and heartrate.
Helpful Ways to Cope With School
Related Stress:
Source: http://sas.calpoly.edu/asc/ssl/stressmanagement.html
Stress Management Strategies
1.Learn how to say “NO!” – know your limits and do not compromise
them. Taking on more than you can handle is not a good choice. It is ok if you
don't do every single activity that your club, fraternity, sorority or your
friends are doing.
2.Attitude – it is human nature to want to freak out. Your mind is
a powerful tool; use it in your favor. Thinking rationally can take you a long
way.
3.Laugh – Do something that you enjoy, take on a hobby, hang out
with friends, and learn to balance your life. If you are feeling upset, express
your feelings. Don't keep them to yourself because that will only add to your
stress.
4.Avoid alcohol and cigarettes – this is just a quick fix. Once
the chemical leave your body, you are back to feeling stressed and you are
probably worse off than when you started.
5.Healthy eating – get the proper nutrition. Eat at least one
hot-home cooked meal a day.
6.Exercise – physical activities can help you in not only burning
off calories, but burning off stress. Exercise helps release tension. Exercise
for 30 minutes a day for at least 3 times per week.
7.Relaxing your mind and body – take deep breaths. Visualize
success. Set some “alone time” where you do something you enjoy. Practice
“mindfulness”, focusing your attention on the present moment.
8.Sleep – at least 7 hours of sleep are needed in order for your
brain and body to function at optimum level. Avoid taking naps for more than 1
hour.
9.Healthy relationships – talk and hang out with friends. Find
some you relate to and with whom you can share your problems with.
10.
Time management – get a planner,
create a schedule, or even a to-do list. Map out what your quarter will look
like. Once you have done that, do a schedule for each week. Then create a
schedule for each day. Be specific. Mark down your class meeting times, study
time for a specific subject, mealtimes, fun activities, and sleep.
11.
Organization – learn how to
organize your notes, keep track of your assignments and note important due
dates or date of exams. Establish your priorities for the day.
12.
Budget – create a budget for your
monthly expenses. Distribute your money according to the bills you need to pay
for the quarter (i.e. rent, tuition, groceries, personal items, house bills,
gasoline, etc.). Determine about how much money you will be able to spend “for
fun.”
13.
Spirituality – spiritually is
regarded as finding meaning in your life, the ability to connect with others.
14.
Determine your learning style –
find out whether you are a visual, auditory or kinesthetic learner.
15.
Slow Down – take a deep breath and
know your limits. Take your time so that you can ensure a well done job.
16.
Find a support system – whether
it's your mom, sister, brother, friend or counselor, find someone you feel
comfortable sharing your feelings with. Sometimes all we need is to vent off
the frustration.
17.
Make changes in your surroundings –
if you find it difficult to study in your dorm try moving to a place where
there is no loud music, and brighter lights.
18.
Delegate responsibilities – when
school or work becomes overwhelming, dividing up the work or responsibilities
helps alleviate pressure and stress.